你不必送鑽石瑪瑙給她，更不必買汽車洋房給她，只要能做到下面幾
1. 提前計劃約會，不要等到週末了，才臨時問她想做什麼
2. 問他今天過的如何，包括他計劃做的事（如：你去看醫生有什麼結果
3. 練習聽問題，問問題
4. 同情她的問題，別試圖解決她的問題
5. 讚美她的外貌
6. 再特殊節日或場合時，送她一束花，讓她驚喜
7. 她在為你做事時，你要說聲謝謝
8. 牽手時，你的手不要軟弱無力
9. 如果你會遲到，打電話讓她知道，可千萬別編一大堆遲到的理由
10. 她難過時，認同她的感覺
11. 她累時，幫助她
12. 喝飲料時別忘了幫她打開，插入吸管
13. 上班時，打電話問她好不好，分享一些興奮的事，或告訴她﹝我愛妳
14. 不管何時她的感覺受了傷害，給她同情，並告訴她：「很對不起，讓
15. 她做了頭髮後，要稱讚她的髮型
16. 和她講話時別偷瞄別的女生
17. 旅行時，行程安排鬆一點，別讓她覺得太趕
18. 當她跟你說話時，放下報紙或關掉電視，全神灌注聽她說
19. 為她開門或車門
20. 她難過或疲倦時要注意她，問她要做什麼事，然後幫助她做這些事
21. 出門時，問她需不需要順便買些東西回來，若需要，別忘了去買
22. 幫她拉椅子
23. 讓她看見你把她的相片放在你的皮夾裡，並不斷更換新相片
24. 她每天和你分享感覺時，你要有耐心，不要看錶
25. 每天至少告訴她幾次﹝我愛妳﹞
26. 問她現在的感覺
27. 和她約會前，要將車子喜乾淨，並清理車內
28. 別黏太緊，給彼此留點空間
29. 如果你出遠門，打電話報平安，並留下可聯絡到你的電話號碼
30. 幫她洗她的車
31. 不管何時，你需要離開時，讓她知道你會回來
32. 做愛之前先洗澡，如果她喜歡，再灑上些古龍水
33. 當她對某些人生氣時，把她帶走
34. 按摩她的背，頸子或腳
35. 有時候，就算沒有性愛，也要製造點擁抱或柔情的氣氛
36. 回到家，先別做其他的事，先找她，擁抱她
37. 她和你看電視時，不要拿著遙控器轉台
38. 在眾人場合裡表現出你對她的感情
39. 如果她生病了，隨時問最新病情
40. 瞭解她最喜歡的飲料，所以必要時，可把她最喜歡的拿出來給她選擇
41. 出去吃飯時，建議去不同的餐廳，不要讓她有尋找餐廳的負擔
42. 為她買戲劇，音樂會，歌劇，舞蹈，或她喜歡的表演的入場卷
43. 製造你們兩人可以漂亮打扮的機會
44. 體諒她的遲到或臨時決定改變衣著
45. 在朋友面前，對她付出比別人更多關心及注意力
46. 聽她談話時，看著她的眼睛
47. 買小禮物給她-如一盒巧克力糖或香水
48. 買裝飾品給她（拿她的一張獨照給店員幫忙選適合她的飾品）
49. 在特殊的場合替她拍照
50. 下雨時替她撐傘
51. 對於她講的笑話要適當的發笑
52. 購物後幫她提東西
53. 寫給她一張愛的短箋或詩，讓她驚喜
54. 長途旅行時由你開車
55. 慢慢開車，保持安全，尊重她的選擇，畢竟，她坐在危險的前座
56. 注意她的感受，並說﹝你今天看起來很高興﹞或﹝你今天看起來很累
57. 帶她出門時，學習辨認方向，這樣她就不會覺得該對方向負責
58. 帶她去跳舞或一起上舞蹈課
59. 給特殊節日寫幾張短箋或做個標誌，如結婚紀念日和生日
60. 用剛建立關係時的態度對待她
61. 聽她講話時，適度的發嗯.哼.啊.哦之聲，讓她知道你對她所談的
62. 出去度個浪漫的短假
63. 買些好的超級強力膠，修補壞掉的東西
64. 燈泡壞了，儘可能馬上換
65. 幫助處理收拾垃圾
66. 看到報上她有興趣的部分，大聲讀出來或剪下來
67. 整齊寫下你接到她留給你的電話留言
68. 保持浴室地板乾淨，淋浴後，將地板擦乾
69. 如果平日是她洗碗，你偶爾也洗一下，尤其在她很疲倦時
70. 住飯店十，請飯店準備特別的東西，如一瓶香檳，蘋果汁，或一束燦
71. 為她提重的袋子
72. 旅行時，負責提行李.負責將行李放進車中
73. 她洗碗時，幫她刷鍋子或做其他困難的事
74. 製作一張「修理」表，放在廚房，一有多餘的時間就為她做一些表上
75. 她準備晚餐時，稱讚她做的菜
76. 把她看的比孩子還重要，讓孩子看見是她最先引起你的注意和重視
77. 和她講話時，偶爾用手碰她
78. 對她當天做的事，和她讀的書，她接的電話表示興趣
79. 修理房子破損的東西，問﹝房子裡有沒有什麼需要修理？我還有時間
80. 鋪床，清理臥室
81. 如果平時，總是她做晚餐，或她太忙太累，請主動做晚餐
82. 她累時，替她泡杯茶
83. 和她同時上床睡覺
84. 出門前跟她吻別說再見
85. 每天擁抱她四次
86. 每天給她二十分鐘專注的時間(這時不要讀報或分心)
87. 如果是她洗襪子，請把襪子翻正面，好讓她省去這道手續
88. 增加兩人獨處的時間
89. 親密時刻或她分享脆弱感覺時，不要接電話
90. 就算路程很短，也要一起走
91. 安排野餐
92. 她操作洗衣機時，你把髒衣服收集到洗衣機旁
93. 帶她去散步
94. 以商量的態度告訴她你要她得到她所要的，也要得到你所要的，但要
95. 當你離家時，讓她知道你想她
96. 帶她最喜歡的派或甜點回家給她
97. 如果平時是她買菜，有空時，陪她一起去買菜
98. 做愛時別忽略了她的感覺
99. 做愛後別倒頭就睡，該有後續的親吻及愛撫
100. 尿尿時別把座蓋尿濕了
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Thursday, March 29, 2012
她愛死你的 100 招（男人必讀；女人要看）
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
BANKING HISTORY TIMELINE - FOLLOW THE MONEY
Elite banking families – including the Rockefellers, Rothschilds, and Morgans – have gained control of the global economy through the central banking system. They set up the Federal Reserve in the US in 1913 and have been manipulating the market to benefit themselves ever since. This timeline shows the pattern of American Presidents being assassinated after challenging central bankers and their monopoly on money, and the Federal Reserve’s artificial creation of booms and busts that causes people to lose their jobs, homes, and retirements, while the bankers further consolidate wealth and control.
1694 – Bank of England Established
First Central Bank established in the UK. Served as model for most modern central banks.
1744- Mayer Amschel Rothschild, Founder of the Rothschild Banking Empire, is Born in Frankfurt, Germany
Mayer Amschel Rothschild extended his banking empire across Europe by carefully placing his five sons in key positions. They set up banks in Frankfurt, Vienna, London, Naples, and Paris. By the mid 1800’s they dominated the banking industry, lending to governments around the world and people such as the Vanderbilts, Carnegies, and Cecil Rhodes.
1757- Colonial Scrip Issued in US
Debt free, fiat currency was printed in the public interest. As Benjamin Franklin said,
“In the colonies we issue our own money. It is called colonial scrip. We issue it in proper proportion to the demands of trade and industry to make the products pass easily from the producers to the consumers. In this manner, creating for ourselves our own paper money, we control its purchasing power and we have no interest to pay no one.”
1776 – American Independence
1791 – Congress Creates the First US Bank – A Private Company, Partly Owned by Foreigners – to Handle the Financial Needs of the New Central Government
Previously, the 13 states had their own banks, currencies and financial institutions.
1816 – The Privately Owned Second Bank of the US was Chartered – It Served as the Main Depository for Government Revenue, Making it a Highly Profitable Bank
1832 – Andrew Jackson Campaigns Against the 2nd Bank of the US and Vetoes Bank Charter Renewal
Andrew Jackson was skeptical of the central banking system and believed it gave too few men too much power and caused inflation. He was also a proponent of gold and silver and an outspoken opponent of the 2nd National Bank. The Charter expired in 1836.
1833 – President Jackson Issues Executive Order to Stop Depositing Government Funds Into Bank of US
By September 1833, government funds were being deposited into state chartered banks.
Jan 30, 1835 – Jackson Escapes Assassination
Assassin misfired twice.
1833-1837 – Manufactured “boom” created by central bankers – money supply Increases 84%, Spurred by the 2nd Bank of the US
The total money supply rose from $150 million to $267 million.[1]
1837-1843 – Terrible Depression
343 of the 850 banks in the US closed entirely as largest banks consolidated wealth and power.[2]
1861 – American Civil War
1862-1863 Lincoln Over Rules Debt-Based Money and Issues Greenbacks to Fund the War
Bankers would only lend the government money under certain conditions and at high interest rates, so Lincoln issued his own currency – “greenbacks” – through the US Treasury, and made them legal tender. His soldiers went on to win the war, followed by great economic expansion.
April 15, 1865 – Lincoln Assassinated
1881- President James Garfield, Staunch Proponent of “Honest Money” Backed by Gold and Silver, was Assassinated
Garfield opposed fiat currency (money that was not backed by any physical object) and was a strong advocate of a bi-metal monetary system. He had the second shortest Presidency in history.
1907- Banking Panic of 1907
The New York Stock Exchange dropped dramatically as everyone tried to get their money out of the banks at the same time across the nation. This banking panic spurred debate for banking reform. JP Morgan and others gathered to create an image of concern and stability in the face of the panic, which eventually led to the formation of the Federal Reserve. The founders of the Federal Reserve pretended like the bankers were opposed to the idea of its formation in order to mislead the public into believing that the Federal Reserve would help to regulate bankers when in fact it really gave even more power to private bankers, but in a less transparent way.
1908 – JP Morgan Associate and Rockefeller Relative Nelson Aldrich Heads New National Monetary Commission
Senate Republican leader, Nelson Aldrich, heads the new National Monetary Commission that was created to study the cause of the banking panic. Aldrich had close ties with J.P. Morgan and his daughter married John D. Rockefeller.
1910 – Bankers Meet Secretly on Jekyll Island to Draft Federal Reserve Banking Legislation
Over the course of a week, some of the nations most powerful bankers met secretly off the coast of Georgia, drafting a proposal for a private Central Banking system. Those in attendance included Nelson Aldrich, A.P. Andrew (Assistant Secretary of the Treasury), Paul Warburg (Kuhn, Loeb, & Co.), Frank Vanderlip (President of National City Bank of New York), Charles D. Norton (president of the Morgan-dominated First National Bank of New York), Henry Davidson (Senior Partner of JP Morgan Co.), and Benjamin Strong (representing JP Morgan).
Dec 23, 1913 – Federal Reserve Act Passed
Two days before Christmas, while many members of Congress were away on vacation, the Federal Reserve Act was passed, creating the Central banking system we have today. It was based on the Aldrich plan drafted on Jekyll Island and gave private bankers supreme authority over the economy. They are now able to create money out of nothing (and loan it out at interest), make decisions without government approval, and control the amount of money in circulation.
1913 – Income tax established -16th Amendment Ratified
Taxes ensured that citizens would cover the payment of debt due to the Central Bank, the Federal Reserve, which was also created in 1913.The 16th Amendment stated: “The Congress shall have power to lay and collect taxes on incomes, from whatever source derived, without apportionment among the several States, and without regard to any census or enumeration.”
1914 – JP Morgan and Co. Profits from Financing both sides of War and Purchasing Weapons
J.P. Morgan and Co. made a deal with the Bank of England to give them a monopoly on underwriting war bonds for the UK and France. They also invested in the suppliers of war equipment to Britain and France.
November 1914 – Federal Reserve Banks Open
1921-1929 – The “Roaring 20’s” – The Federal Reserve Floods the Economy with Cash and Credit
From 1921 to 1929 the Federal Reserve increased the money supply by $28 billion, almost a 62% increase over an eight-year period.[3] This artificially created another “boom”.
1929 – Federal Reserve Contracts the Money Supply
In 1929, the Federal Reserve began to pull money out of circulation as loans were paid back. They created a “bust” which was inevitable after issuing so much credit in the years before. The Federal Reserve’s actions triggered the banking crisis, which led to the Great Depression.
October 24, 1929 – “Black Thursday”, Stock Market Crash
The most devastating stock market crash in history. Billions of dollars in value were consolidated into the private banker’s hands at the expense of everyone else.
1930- Great Depression Begins
1929-1933- Federal Reserve Reduces Money Supply by 33%
June 4, 1963 – Kennedy Issued an Executive Order (11110) that Authorized the US Treasury to Issue Silver Certificates, Threatening the Federal Reserve’s Monopoly on Money
This government issued currency would bypass the governments need to borrow from bankers at interest.
Nov. 22, 1963 - Kennedy Assassinated
December 1963 – Johnson Reverses Kennedy’s Banking Rule and Restores Power to the Federal Reserve
1999 – The Financial Services Modernization Act Allows Banks to Grow Even Larger
Many economists and politicians have recognized that this legislation played a key part in the subprime mortgage crisis of 2007. It repealed part of the Glass-Steagall Act of 1933 and allowed investment banks, commercial banks, securities firms, and insurance companies to merge. Citigroup was a major proponent of this particular bill (it had already merged with Travelers Insurance and needed to find a way to legally keep the corporation together). The government gave Citi officials the opportunity to review and approve drafts before the legislation was introduced and to modify it as they desired. Robert Rubin, Treasury Secretary at the time, helped move the bill forward in early 1999. He then stepped down from the Treasury position in July, joined CitiGroup in October, and the bill was passed in November. The Center for Responsive Politics also found that members of Congress who supported the bill received twice as much money from the banking sector than those who opposed it.[4]
2000-2003 – The Federal Reserve Extends “Easy Credit”, Lowers the Federal Fund Rate from 6.5% to 1%[5] and Sets up Another Financial “Boom”
2004 – Investment Banks and the SEC Cut a Deal
On April 28, 2004, five of the biggest investment banks, including Bear Stearns and Goldman Sachs (then run by Henry Paulson, who later became Secretary of the Treasury), met with members of the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC), urging them to allow voluntary regulation of themselves, so they could determine themselves how much money they could make up out of nothing to loan into circulation. This is known as the banks leverage ratio, or amount of assets to borrowing ratio. Up until 2004, the amount of debt the banks could take on was limited. However, in 2004, the SEC agreed to let banks regulate themselves and take on as much debt as they wanted, therefore unleashing billions of dollars for high-risk investment packages. Under this new voluntary regulation the Bear Stearns ratio, for example, jumped to 33 to 1.[6] Not long after, the economy collapsed and financial wealth and power was again further consolidated into the hands of the private bankers who run the Federal Reserve.
2004-2006 – Federal Reserve Sets Off New “Bust” by Making Loans and Adjustable Rate Mortgages More Expensive, Raising Fed Fund Rates to 5.25%[7], This contracts the market.
2007-2010 – Worst Financial Crisis Since the Great Depression
The financial crisis impacted people around the world – millions lost their homes, jobs, and retirement funds. Many of the smaller banks were absorbed by others, which allowed the biggest banks to further consolidate wealth and eliminate competition. In 2008, J.P. Morgan Chase & Co. bought up both Washington Mutual (the biggest bank to “fail” in the history of the United States) and Bear Stearns (the fifth largest investment bank).
2010 – JP Morgan Chase Reports Record Profits
The bank made a record profit of $17.4 Billion in 2010. [8]
[1] http://wiki.mises.org/wiki/Panic_of_1837
[2] http://wiki.mises.org/wiki/Panic_of_1837
[3] “The Inflationary Factors”: http://mises.org/rothbard/agd/chapter4.asp
[4] “Money and Votes Aligned in Congress’s Last Debate Over Bank Regulation” by Massie Ritsch, September 23, 2008. http://www.opensecrets.org/news/2008/09/money-and-votes-aligned-in-con.html
[5] Open Market Operations Archive, The Federal Reserve:http://www.federalreserve.gov/monetarypolicy/openmarket_archive.htm
[6] http://www.nytimes.com/2008/10/03/business/03sec.html?pagewanted=1
[7] http://www.federalreserve.gov/monetarypolicy/openmarket.htm#2006
[8] http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-12189494
Sunday, March 25, 2012
(有做期货的人看一看）贏家和輸家的差別/Job-搶救貧窮大作戰
搶救貧窮大作戰-好看的日本節目，雖然現在要找有點難。這節目每集都差不多…
快倒閉破產的一家人寄信到節目當中，說著他們一家的慘況
接著老闆會接受超級特訓：在三天之內學會超級好吃的料理
這集也是…
這集請到年營業額上億的大炮拉麵經營者擔任專家，年紀很輕
但這集要拯救老闆的專家 卻和其它專家不太相同
他親自到達老闆的店，想親自了解問題所在
他叫老闆做一次麵給他吃 老闆看起來有點不高興，但還是把麵做好
但專家吃了一口就不吃了…
專家：「你這蔥花什麼時候切的？」
老闆：「昨天。」
專家：「吃的出來。」 (我心想，不愧是專家，不過我應該也吃的出來)
「湯沒什麼問題…」
專家站了起來…
走到麵鍋旁說指著菸灰缸說：「你沒事時，就站在這抽菸。對吧？」
老闆無語：「……」
專家走到放麵的地方接著說：「看到客人來了，就走到這裡~~~
用你沾滿菸味的手抓麵，對吧~~~」
專家接著說：「你的麵沒有問題，問題全在於你，你根本沒有把心放在客人的身上。
你把全部的注意力都放在你的菸上。」 (專家也有柯南的推理能力？)
老闆從頭到尾都一直是愁容滿面，被比自己年輕許多的專家訓，臉上更是露出北宋的表情。
老闆的第一天試練是在停車場接待客人 並要體會感謝客人來的感覺
但老闆卻覺得在浪費時間 他的臉從頭臭到尾 (電視上看來真的比狗屎還臭)
第二天也遲到了一個小時
專家等了一個小時，有點不爽
他對老闆說：
「你以為你學到這的食譜，你的生意就會好起來嗎？
如果你學不到處處為客人著想的那顆心，是沒有用的！」
於是老闆又被罰到停車場說：「歡迎光臨」
他的臉又更臭了 他不停地在鏡頭前抱怨這是在浪費時間
此時，我已經了解，他的失敗是必然的了，這也正是這個節目精采的地方，
你會了解到贏家和輸家的表情、舉止、眼神、站姿和說的話有多麼不同。
(我印最深的是一個五代以上的傳人，他說他每天早上起床第一件事就是想：怎麼把麵煮的更好吃)
但是，案情急轉直下，到了晚上，老闆看到客人滿足吃飽的笑容 他頓悟了
很神奇~~~~他忽然覺得很快樂 (這是很大的差異，和之前不爽的表情真的差很多，看起來就是個專家的臉)
總之，他領悟了
第三天，也是最後一天，專家才開始教他食譜，
但食譜卻出奇的簡單，只是熬十六個小時的高湯罷了
我心想這是我從以前看到現在最爛的食譜
唯一特別的是，每次熬高湯，都要留下一點，再下次煮高湯時要加進去
專家送了一小鍋，傳了幾十年的高湯，送給老闆
老闆就這樣輕輕鬆鬆的擁有幾十年風味的「高湯」
全文完…
什麼…
你說：「這和交易沒什麼關系？」
不過這才是我最在乎的事。